Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You mostly drive away the people you love with your selfish nature. As an Aries, you are always naturally inclined to prioritize your own personal dreams and goals above your relationships. Self-actualization and personal fulfillment are very important to you as a person. And so while you do find success in your life, your relationships tend to suffer because of your relentless will to succeed.
Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
Your possessiveness and jealousy is what drives away the people that you love. As a Taurus, you are never withholding of your love and passion yourself. But the problem with that is that you expect other people to be the same. You have to understand that not all people are going to be as expressive with their love as you are. And you can’t allow yourself to feel entitled to being the sole recipient of their love either.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
Your lack of self-identity can be a really frustrating deal to be with for the people around you. The people who love you will start to be really irritated by how they can’t seem to get any form of consistency or stability with who you are as a person.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You are incredibly needy as a Cancer. You are the type of person who likes to stay in your shell. You don’t like to open yourself up to people too easily. But when you do start to become comfortable with someone, you cling to them like super glue. You end up becoming overly dependent and reliant on the affection of the person who loves you to the point where you suffocate them.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Your confidence as a Leo is both your biggest asset and your biggest weakness. As a Leo, you are absolutely obsessed with yourself. Your confidence levels are always through the roof and you rarely eve doubt yourself. However, your confidence can also be seen as arrogance – and not all people are going to be so tolerant of constant arrogant behavior.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You are a perfectionist by nature as a Virgo, but that can also irritate and alienate a lot of people around you. You have to understand that you can’t just impose all of your impossibly high standards on everyone around you. That’s the quickest way to just piss people of.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You probably can’t help how flirtatious you are as a Libra, but you’re going to have to cut back if you don’t want to end up driving away the people close to you. It can be a struggle for you to contain you charm and your charisma. You always attract beautiful people towards you – but that can also make the people who love you feel very insecure and doubtful.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Your hardheadedness is what drives people away from you the most. As a Scorpio, you have to learn to understand that compromise is essential in trying to sustain a relationship. You always can’t have everything your way and you have to respect the ideas of others.
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You have a tendency to be quite irresponsible as a Sagittarius. You are the kind of person who bites off more who can chew. You make promises left and right to the people that you love, but you rarely ever keep them. You don’t really stick to the commitments that you make and it’s very frustrating to the people who you break your promises to.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
Your cynicism and overall negative view of the world is really what drives people away from you. As a Capricorn, you are a cynic and you tend to take on a very pessimistic personality. However, you have to keep in mind that too much cynicism can be very off-putting. A lot of people will want positivity and energy while you only offer the opposite to that.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Your lack of emotion is really what drives the people you love away from you. As an Aquarius, you don’t hold emotions to a high regard. In fact, you see having emotions as a weakness. And for the most part, you’re right. But you also have to understand that you need to be sensitive to others if you want to keep them in your life. Emotions are a natural aspect of human nature after all.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You are one of the most emotionally closed off and secretive people in the world. As a Pisces, you are always living inside of your head and you rarely ever just open up about what you’re thinking and how you’re feeling. Yes, you are deeply emotional but you rarely ever let your emotions out into the open and that’s why the people who love you can become distrusting of you.