He might change or he might not.
Why is it that no matter how much you adore your partner, they’re still annoying? It doesn’t matter if they’re the least annoying person in your life, or that you mostly see all the good things about them; there are still some things they do that bug you.
And take a lesson from the most annoying zodiac signs in astrology: a horoscope definitely won’t discourage an annoying person from driving you up the wall. But being annoyed by someone and not letting it morph into a huge deal is important in a healthy relationship.
It can be beneficial to discuss the ways in which you and your partner annoy each other, as long as it doesn’t come from an angry place. You or your partner may agree to do better or try to change, but the real challenge is not overreacting when the behavior continues.
The good thing is that, over time, you may get so used to their annoying behavior that you don’t even notice. Luckily, by then they’ll have created a new annoying behavior for you to focus on!
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
You know that he loves you and wants to be with you, but there are times when it feels as if he’s forgotten to put you in the equation. He makes plans without consulting you, does fun things without inviting you along, or does something risky without even considering that it might affect your life.
You shouldn’t need to remind him that you’re in this together, but sometimes, it feels like if you don’t remind him of your presence, he’ll forget that you’re together.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
You knew he was stubborn going into the relationship, but what really surprises (and annoys) you is how passive he can be. When you ask him for his opinion or his ideas on something, he just leaves it up to you. You know that he’s going to want to weigh in, but if he’s in a passive mood, he’ll just tell you that whatever you decide is fine.
However little he might have been involved in the planning, he’ll definitely have some words for you if things aren’t to his taste.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
His lack of organizational skills are highly annoying. He can never remember where he put anything and tends to spend a lot of extra time searching for things that he misplaced.
When he needs evidence or backup for something like his taxes, it will cause a minor meltdown because he’s just so disorganized. It doesn’t help that he usually waits until the last minute for almost everything. You’d love it if he could manage to be prepared once and a while.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
It’s great that he has a sensitive side, but there are times when he’s a little too sensitive and touchy. You’ve done things before when you’ve been completely unaware that they hurt him. Rather than tell you at the time, he just acted mopey, like you were supposed to just know that something was wrong.
You don’t want to feel that you need to be extra careful with your partner; he’s supposed to be the person you feel completely at ease with!
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
He can be annoying when he acts arrogant. He doesn’t know everything and he’s not always right, but sometimes he sure thinks he’s the bomb. Confidence is a great quality to have, but there are times when he’s a little too confident and full of himself.
He could turn the sense of his own self-importance down a notch or two and you’d be just fine with it. It’s not easy being in a relationship with someone whose ego takes up the whole room.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
There are times when he’s so picky and fussy that it’s highly annoying. You want to scream when he’s pointing out flaws in something. Who made him judge of the world?
He’s not perfect and he knows it, but that still doesn’t stop him from being judgmental and supercritical. You wish he’d give it a break and realize that there’s beauty in imperfection. Sometimes listening to him excessively criticize something is a real turn-off.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
Yikes, can this guy hold a grudge! Most of the time he’s engaging and wonderful, but piss him off or remind him of an injustice of the past and he won’t let it go. Forgiveness doesn’t come easily to him, if at all.
If he’s reminded of a past slight, it’s as if it’s happened all over again and the pain is just as fresh and stinging as before. You wish he would learn to forgive and forget, but you aren’t holding your breath.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
He’s annoying when he’s needlessly rude to people. It doesn’t make any sense because you’ve seen how he can totally turn it on and charm the pants off people, but there are times when he’s just a jerk.
It may come from a place of wanting to protect his tender heart or maybe he wants to impress you with how masculine he is, but if that’s the case, he’s failing. Being rude isn’t attractive, it’s just obnoxious and irritating.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
You adore his honesty, but his bluntness can be annoying. He could be a little more sensitive before saying something that might be unintentionally hurtful to you or others.
You wonder why he can be so obtuse when it comes to other people’s feelings. There’s no rule that says he has to say every single thing that’s on his mind. He could learn a few things about discretion and being kind with his words.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
You’d like him to admit on occasion that there are some things you know more about than he does. He’s not the expert on everything and it makes you annoyed that he can skim over your brilliance to make himself look better.
You just want him to admit that you aren’t just his equal, there are times when you’re superior to him, and there’s never a reason for him to talk down to you.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
He’s annoying when he’s contrary. He doesn’t want to seem as if he’s a pushover, so he’ll be antagonistic when there’s no cause to react that way.
Maybe there’s a part of him that feels alive when he’s involved in conflict, or perhaps he just likes a good argument or battle. But he’s usually extremely easy-going, so when he’s acting contradictory for no reason, it can be aggravating.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
It’s annoying when he gets so in his own head that he doesn’t pay attention to what’s happening around him. His imagination is admirable, but he shouldn’t go there when you’re in the middle of a conversation or when he’s doing something like cooking or working on a deadline.
There needs to be a balance between real-time and fantasy-time, and he hasn’t achieved it. All you’re asking is that he pay attention to you when you’re talking or doing something important.