Do people ever call you ‘hard to get’? This article could have some answers for you.
Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)
Even if you like someone with all your heart and they are not making enough efforts or giving you the attention you need, you will simply walk away. That is because Capricorn are tough, stern and decisive. They give their fullest of efforts and expect the same treatment in return. Although, if they are provided with half of the efforts than they are making, Capricorn will stick to a relationship and keep giving all their being.
Moreover, instead of being sad over a broken relationship, you will learn a life-lesson and move on. Due to this habit, people will think of you as a cold and heartless person but in fact, the case is quite the opposite, once you know that your relationship is secure, you will be the best partner there is. Also read, 10 Things to Remember While Loving a Capricorn and if you are in a relationship with a Capricorn read, 10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!
Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)
As an Aquarius, you are always protecting your emotional well-being. When it comes to relationships, it will take an extremely patient and special person for you to let down your guard and let the person in.
Moreover, you will need the possible suitor to make efforts for you. You will not be giving yourself easily. As am Aquarius, you will need to be chased and demanded. You are hard to get because most people give up too easily without appreciating your existence with constant efforts. Also read, 9 Things to Adopt For a Healthy Relationship with an Aquarius.
Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)
As a Pisces, chances are that you got hurt in the past by trusting the wrong person. But now, you are wiser and more careful with giving people your trust or affection.
However, you will also find out that balance is your friend. Soon, you’ll be able to maintain the much needed balance that works best for you and you will only go for people who understand and support the balance that you have created in your life.
As for trust, your possible suitor will have to be very patient. Your trust is not easy to gain and most people have crashed and burned at it because they probably got impatient. Also read, 10 things you need to know about Loving a Pisces.– Continue reading on the next page
Aries (March 21st to April 19th)
As an Aries, you are very adventurous and fun-loving. So, of course you cannot be swayed with a normal dinner date. You are hard to get because you need the thrill and fun integrated with the date. You need way more than ordinary. You keep yourself to high standards and you need others to do that same before you can give them your heart.
Moreover, as an Aries, you are of an independent nature. You cannot be bounded in any pre-set boundaries. You are hard to get because people try to impose boundaries on you and of course, you cannot be bound by anyone. For you, relationship is an extension of your life and not your life’s purpose. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and how you should be loved.
Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)
As a Taurus, you are kind and warm towards all the people that you meet. You value emotions and that is why you are hard to get. You need someone to be able to match you on the same spectrum of emotional intimacy.
You cannot be with someone who is not expressive or vocal with their feelings. You cannot be with those who do not acknowledge or nurture your emotions and it’s not like you will not reciprocate your partner’s feelings too; you will also be emotionally nurturing towards the person you will finally give your heart to. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.
Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)
From the outside, you are a lively person whom people love to be around. However, it would take a very special person to know you on a deeper level. Even though you don’t let your vulnerable side out, it doesn’t mean that you don’t have it. You are hard to get because most people don’t pay attention to your emotional needs thinking that you don’t have any.
But in fact, you feel things deeply but you’re just not too vocal or expressive about your vulnerabilities and feelings. You only let down your guard in front of the people that hold a special place in your life. Moreover, another thing that makes you hard to get is the fact that you can tell when someone is trying to misuse your apparent lack of emotions. Also read our separate article for Geminies: 5 Easy Ways to Love a Gemini. – Continue reading on next page
Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)
As a cancer, it is very easy for you to see through people. You’ll know when someone is real with you and when someone is being fake and pretending to be a person that they are not. Due to this reason, you are hard to get because unless people are completely themselves with you, you cannot get close to them.
Your ability to detect fake people also makes it hard for you to maintain a big social circle which is why, you have selected friends whom you trust and chances are, you will give your heart to someone you know on a deeper level, it would probably be one of your close friends. Also read 10 things you need to know about a Cancerian woman.
Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)
Leo’s keep high standards. They keep themselves to a set standards and don’t get close to anyone who doesn’t match or at least near the standards that they have set for themselves. In your case, opposites don’t attract, quite the opposite actually. You need someone who has similar values and standards as you do.
What makes you hard to get is the fact that it is not easy for you to get emotionally attached to anyone who isn’t similar to you on a mental level. You’ll need your possible suitors to have the same level of personal self-esteem and self-worth as you do. Let’s face it, it is very hard to find the people who are similar to oneself but once Leos find that person, the companionship is magical. Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way.
Virgo (23rd August to 22nd September)
As a Virgo, you are not easily impressed. You look at the deeper aspects of all things. Virgos are always looking at things beyond the surface. You want someone to make you feel special and accept you unconditionally as the complex person that you are.
Moreover, people will perceive you as hard to get because for you, it takes an insightful connection with another person before you can invest your emotions. For you, your emotional energy, time and intelligence is a very important personal commodity that you don’t consider everyone worthy of giving. Here are 13 things that you should know about loving a Virgo. – Continue reading on the next page
Libra (23rd September to 22nd October)
As a Libra, it is very easy for you to make and maintain social connections. You have a lot of options around you, which is why, you cannot settle for anything that you do not perceive as the best possible option
With a huge social circle and countless options, you will only choose the best of everything in all walks of life. You are hard to get due to your refined taste in social relationships. With countless pursuers, you will choose someone who relates to your life and has similar circumstances. Chances are that you will end up falling for another Libra too. With a keen sense of self, they make wonderful life partners! Also read Why are Libras considered as the best long term partners.
Scorpio (23rd October to November 22nd)
As a Scorpio, you are very decisive and at all times, you know what you want. You’re hard to get because you cannot settle for anyone who is not capable of providing you with the things that you need.
When it comes to social relationships, you have a mental image of a perfect partner. You know exactly what kind of a person you want to be with, moreover, you introspect quite often and that is why, you know what negative qualities you cannot handle. But, being of an optimistic nature, you will give some wrong people chances but fear not, the mistakes will only be making your decisiveness stronger at the face of present and future adversity. If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio then you should know the 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.
Sagittarius (23rd November to 21st December)
As a Sagittarius, you don’t use a mental filter between your thoughts and words. You say whatever is on your mind and whatever is ethical and moral for you. You are straightforward regarding all things and this fact makes you hard to get. You will always expect the same level of honesty from others too. You won’t be able to settle for anyone who is two faced with his or her words.
Throughout your life, you will meet many people who think of you as too straightforward or even hurtful with your words.
You are hard to get because you expect everyone to be able to understand you and your perspective without taking your words personally. Your possible suitors will have to know that you say the things that you’re thinking and will always have you own unique perspective.